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    7 wedding day don’ts

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    Brides and grooms: Seven don’ts for you鸿运彩票手机appr wedding day

    Don’t be a control freak.

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    Many people feel like the sentiment won’t be genuine unless they recite their own vows from memory. Take the pressure off and put them in a binder for the celebrant or on note cards. What matters is the emotion.

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    Don’t get drunk.

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    Yes, some are couples shocked that they don’t/can’t have sex on their wedding night. I believe that’s okay as long as you鸿运彩票手机app are staying connected and affectionate otherwise.

    In this case, lowering you鸿运彩票手机appr expectations is a good thing. Don’t expect to have the most intensely fulfilling orgasm ever or to simultaneously orgasm together in wedding night bliss. Just be open and fully present with one another and the right thing will happen.

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